Revealed - 10 biggest Mistakes Women make in relationships

We all make mistakes in our relationship, at times this could come from the Man or the Woman. Today we are not going to talk about the general mistakes in our relationship but rather to focus on the woman side as we have already discussed about the common mistakes man make in a relationship in one of our previous post.

Every individual have their own challenges related to the way we perceive, see and interact with the world around us. Most times, we see things wrongly which is why we often make mistakes, but the good news is that, a lot of it could actually be avoided if only people became more aware of the huge differences in how men and women navigate and interact with the world. 

So, below are the 10 Biggest Mistakes Women Make In Relationships without any specific order of arrangement.
 

1. Having Zero Understanding About Men. 

 How do you intend to cope with something you don't even understand? It's impossible, that's why women who understand how men works and appreciate them for their masculine gifts and power have an advantage over those who don't. The truth is, women are more complex than men, men on the other hand are just simple creatures who actually are pre-wired to want to serve you, of course, that's if you know how to inspire them.
The simple logic here is, if you want to enjoy a man good side, and you want them to bring out their best, rather than suffer through their worst, then, you need to learn how to understand and appreciate them.

2. Trying To Change Him. 

Why trying so hard to change a man? Does that means you don't accept him as he is?. There’s nothing that turns off a man like meeting a woman he’s trying to impress and then having her immediately try to turn him into something he's not.

Though women has always been like that because they tend to be caretakers by nature but frankly speaking, it usually doesn’t end well for either party because people want to be seen, heard and appreciated for who they are.
You don't have to try so hard to change a man, especially by throwing some dirty hints on him, a man who truly love you will never live a life that won't please you or hurt your feelings. in fact, he will change himself for you.


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3. Trying To Tie Him Down Too fast. 

This is no doubt one of the biggest mistakes women makes over and over again. Just after one date, one kiss, or even one intimate encounter, women often seems to think they’re now magically in a “relationship.” yes, but actually, not so fast.
When you are trying to tie him down too soon, it makes the man unstable and uncomfortable with you, it's like you are trying to take away his freedom.

The truth is men have an almost primitive drive and preference for the concept of freedom that practically lies in their DNA. Add to that it’s basic human nature that as soon as you grab someone quickly, they instinctively and reflexively pull away. While that may sound like men have no interest in monogamy, that’s not exactly true. Masculine energy will absolutely commit and voluntarily give up their freedom, but only after they’re convinced that you offer something better. The key here is TIME. Timing is everything.

4. You Don’t Know Your Own Value

For you to be valued, you most first know your own value, it is the way you carry yourself that determines how people around will treat you.
Do you always find yourself chasing after the wrong boys who treat you badly and only want them more? Are you afraid to ask for what you want? Are you attracted to all the unavailable guys? Do you put up with nonsense expecting that one day things will change for good? If so, then am glad to inform you that you are not alone.
Ironically, the thing that will keep you stuck here for years is that no man can really respect a woman who will allow him to treat her so poorly, so, not knowing one's value is a self inflicted wound. You can't be seen for what you are not, if you want to be treated like a king, then start acting like one.

5. You Simply don't appreciate what men do for you. 

Some women are just too self-centered they always believe they are “owed” something. They will never be grateful nor appreciate a man's effort in their life and the funniest part is, many of them have nothing or just little to offer in their relationship.
In case you think the term “gold digger” sounds bad, consider how it feels to be on the receiving end of that kind of behavior.

6. No Trust. 

You either didn’t build trust Or you broke it.
If a man is going to consider a future with you, he has got to believe that you respect him and always has his back while he has yours and a good man who feels connected to you will give his all to be your hero. In fact, he may even give his life to protect you. His commitment is that deep. In return, he must be able to trust that you have his best interests in mind also.

7. You Didn’t Inspire Him Enough.  

The fact is, dating is a very tough and competitive  thing in the human space. Everybody wants the best from their relationship, we all wants a partner that make us feel special and complete, someone who is going to inspire us to see a future with him/her.
 As a matter of fact, it’s ideal when both partners have such a strong appreciation and gratitude for one another that they both feel blessed to have attracted their partner. Basically, it’s about finding someone who just “gets” you and resonates with you. Believe it or not, this isn’t as rare as it seems; you can learn how to get better at attracting this.

8. You Compare Your Relationship with others. 

Comparing your relationship with others will damage and destroy you and your partner. Forget the outer part of what you are seeing out there, everybody has his or her own challenges in a relationship, you don't know what they are also facing privately. Never you draw a comparison between your relationship and the others. It's not going to end well.
Just because your friend is all gaga over her husband doesn't mean the way you adore your husband is less valuable, and just because everyone on your Facebook feed seems to be engaged doesn't mean that you need to be too, there is always more to what you see, especially on social media.
Because your friends boyfriend or husband always upload her pictures on his social media account does not mean your man should also do the same to prove his love for you.

9. You don't communicate your feelings. 

Communication is one of the key elements in any relationship, it's only through constant communication that you can understand yourselves and build a strong relationship.  So when you learn to communicate your feelings to your partner, it's helps him in knowing where he's actually missing it. This is not just a normal communication, but a communication about one's feelings.

10. You're Unmindful To His Feelings.

I hate to bring this up, but women think it's always the man who should always be conscious of their feelings because of their fragile nature. They hardly believe men also need the same treatment. As a woman, if you are oblivious to your partner feelings, then you shouldn't blame him when he finds a better replacement.