Love is hard and complicated, most of our relationships collapse because we fall in love with the wrong person. And this usually happens because we didn't have a clear and thorough understanding about who we are Falling in love with. In the early relationship stage, everybody tries to be in his or her best behavior which makes it hard to really know who the person truly is.
It is true that many people pretend to be cool and moderate in their first date, but no matter the level of pretense, there are still some certain things that need to be observed before going deep into any relationship in order to avoid any future problems.
That is why we thought it would be a good idea to enlighten the mind of our dear men on the types of Women they should try to avoid by every possible means.
BELOW ARE THE 12 TYPES OF GIRLS YOU SHOULD AVOID BY EVERY POSSIBLE MEANS.
1. Rude Girl:
Why would anyone want to date a rude girl?
when a girl is rude, it's automatically means that she has no respect for anybody. Before you go deep into any relationship, it's important to study the character and behavior of the person you are falling in love with. You must pay a close attention to some certain things about her, especially the way she treats people around her.
I still don't understand why some men choose to ignore things like this. That's why most relationships never last, they fail to take those things seriously. When you are on a date, start to notice the way she talks to people, like the Waiters, Bartenders and even how she answers a call.
Notice those little things like if she says thank you when you hold the door open for her, or if she says please when asking for something.
A girl beauty is not only judged by her facial look, not even measured by the level of her makeup or her dress, but by her good character and behavior.
If your partner is rude at the beginning of your relationship, when she's supposed to be at her best behavior, just imagine what you will face in the nearest future.
If she's not polite, she's rude. Don't date her.
2. The Control Freaks:
This type of girls always wants to be in charge of everything even among friends, they don't like people telling them what to do or how to do it. In their relationship, they want to always be the boss.
They are usually lazy and has no respect for their man, and am very sure you don't want to go into a relationship with someone you can't control.
Run far away from this type of girls, they are not good for you.
According to wiki, in psychology-related slang, the term control freak describes a person who attempts to dictate how everything is done around them.
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3. A Demanding Girl:
A demanding woman is never ever satisfied, they always want more. We know relationships are not for the broke ass, but then, there is a limit to everything. A demanding woman is always self-centered, they are only concerned about their own personal feelings, in as much you are answering to their demands they don't care how you even go about it. A woman like this is not advisable for you. They are the type who always goes into relationship because of money.
A woman can demand for something, at any time, but at a point where she's becoming too much demanding, then run.
Though sometimes, a real man shouldn't wait for his woman to ask first before giving.
4. The Girl Who Lie:
Do I still need to tell you this? It's so annoying when everyone blames men for being a liar, when in reality woman lie even better than men, that's to say women are better liar. However, not all of them. In any relationship, the key elements are trust and understanding, but how can you trust someone who always lie?
This is not just about lying, we all find ourselves in this same act sometimes, but we are taking about a constant liar. Usually anyone who lies has an ulterior motive which is why they are not to be trust.
A woman who lie are often into something suspicious which sometimes involves another man or maybe not, but whatever their aim is, the fact remains they are not trustworthy. People don't just lie, they lie to cover a secret, and if she's a constant liar, she has definitely got a lot of secrets.
The funniest part is that some guys don't even realized they have been lied to, they are so blind by the word “love” that they couldn't even notice if she's lying.
5. The Lazy Girl:
Why would anyone want to date a lazy girl? Laziness is no doubt one of the least attractive qualities a woman or any person at all could possess. The lazy girl here is not the one who is aways pressing phone, watching television or just sleeping, what we refer to as a lazy girl is a girl without ambition or motivation.
For a woman to be independent, she must be self-sufficient and this, a woman can not achieve by being lazy. Especially in our today's society where men are looking for a hard-working woman. A lazy girl is a total turn-off for any right-thinking man.
6. The Girl That Jumped From Boyfriend To Boyfriend:
Its normal and understandable that when a relationship ends you start another, but there are some obvious situations where it seems like every time she ends a relationship, she immediately start a new one.
Something is definitely not clear here, is like she already has a list of substitutions somewhere. This almost desperation feeling that pores from most of these women is translated through their fear of being alone.
A woman independence is sexy and any woman who is not comfortable by themselves are usually those types who always double date. This is because they can't just afford to be alone by themselves.
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7. The Girl That Is Always Changing Friends:
When you see a woman who always and constantly changing friends like cloth, this should pass a message to you that they are the type of woman who is very difficult to keep around. 95% of women who constantly changing friends are often due to their bad characters and attitude.
Romantic relationships are more complex than friendship, that why in friendship even after realizing the unpleasant things you are facing with friends, you still hardly let go because you understand friends usually put up with a hell of a more throughout the years, which is why you should be concerned if a woman has never kept the same friends for more than a year, chance are she probably doesn't have control over anything which mostly as a result of bad character.
Yes, there are women who have many friends and are still making new friends. But, You should worry more about the woman who is constantly changing friends. Their lives are full of issues.
8. The Girl That Has Only Male Friends:
Girls life is full of drama, so it's very normal for a girl to balance the equation with male friends, but in a situation where a girl has no girlfriends, then you should know something is not right somewhere.
It is a proven fact that women who only hang out with male friends are likely to be more secretive in nature and more reserved, which is mostly why they avoid being with the same sex.
Dating this type of girl will only bring nothing but trouble and misunderstanding.
9. The Girl That Is Friends With All Her Ex-boyfriends:
Is this not madness? A girl can be friends with one of her exes, this is understandable, but being friends with all your exes is fucking odd.
This is a clear sign that the girl has coupled of issues with her, and she's suspicious. You should note that what we mean by being friends with your exes in this instance is not just being in a good term with your exes but that you guys are still taking on a daily basis, doing some activities together and hanging out.
This is equally to dating, probably without sex.
The main issue here is that, these types of girls are still giving these men full hope that she still has feelings for them. Believe it or not, this is definitely something you don't want to involve in. Relationships like this are always full of drama and issue which often ends badly.
The only advantage here is that, when you guys break-up, you are still going to enjoy the ex's benefits. (*smile*)
10. Constant Clubbing And party Girls:
Party girls love attention, that's why they are always out there. You should know there's a difference between a normal club girl and a regular club girl.
The normal club girl do clubbing mostly on weekends, but the constant club girls don't have any other things to think about than clubs and party. In their spare time, they would never think of any other place but clubs.
No doubt, there are some guys who love club girls simply because they are fun, lively, well-packaged and sweet, but those same guys will never marry them, they only see them as someone they can hang out with because of their fun lifestyle.
A club girl is attention whore and loves the attention she gets from club guys, so why would she need your attention? They get excitement from dressing up (mostly half-naked) drinking heavily and getting hit on by strange men every night.
Even when this girl is in a relationship, that nightlife addiction will still be in her blood and you better believe that will lead to problems.
Am sure, if any good men is looking for a humble, loyal and responsible girl, the club is probably not the right place you want to go.
11. The Girl Who Always Has An Excuse:
This type of girls are so boring and annoying she always has an excuse to everything. Her battery got flat, no service to call you, she's not having an airtime, she's having headache, she's seeing her periods even when it's still early. These are some of the things she will always throw at you.
Their type never agrees to anything; they will blame people for their own misfortune. This kind of girls are full of disappointment, we strongly suggest you get out of that relationship.
Anyone who refuses to take credibility for their behavior is someone you shouldn't be in a relationship with, they are next to a liar, instead of them to tell you sorry, they will manipulate you to the extent you start feeling sorry for them.
12. Social media slay Queen:
The slaying queen is an attention seeker, they like being noticed, they will always want people to feel their presence in any gathering.
They like expensive things even when they can't afford it.
They don't mind borrowing cloth, bags and shoes just for pictures, so they can upload it on Facebook or Instagram, many of them are living a fake life, compare to what they show to the world on social media.
They don't usually value men, except of course you have money.
They have got so carried away by the likes and comments they received on Facebook and Twitter, they see themselves as goddess because of the hundreds of messages they received daily on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.
Slaying queen are just a bunch of lazy ass who's only after material things. She will do anything to get any latest design, be it Phones, Shoes or Bags, even without having any particular work or job. Girls like that can not be trusted, and they are also very hard to please, because they are very fond of themselves.
On Facebook we called them “Facebook Famous” they sometimes upload their nude pictures to get likes. What's your own definition of a slaying Queen?
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